Why dating a unicorn
(1) new to negotiated nonmonogamy, (2) strict one-penis-policy, (3) primary couple looking for female secondary, often (4) without "coming out" so they'd like such a relationship to be on the quiet, etc.
Sometimes, they're so keen to get what they're looking for that they promote themselves in groups where hitting on other members isn't appropriate, or they come across as creepy as a result of their single-minded unicorn quest.
But like I said, I've never heard of anybody hating unicorns, or hating people who date them. That being said, overall reason behind the above anecdote and eventual break up was that he was controlling, psycho and abusive.Although I can respect people knowing what they want and making it known up front, a couple in search of a Unicorn most of the time is covering what I consider to be concerns in other areas.Polyamory is about having multiple loving relationships.Something else we noticed was that most of the dating site ads by Unicorn hunters were from the female of the couple.I realized then that I had been focusing on Unicorn hunters from my own male perspective.
However, my SO and I know in our hearts that isn't the case.